Qual consolo qual quê...

Será que quando nos dizem algo do género “Tu és uma miúda super porreira”, “Gosto muito de ti”, “És uma miúda espectacular”, (e claro, sempre com um mas a seguir...) não percebem que estão a gastar o seu latim? É que não nos interessa sermos miúdas espectaculares, porreiras, boas miúdas, isto e aquilo, mas sim ser A miúda! Aquela que carrega imperfeições, que é de longe perfeita e ainda assim é desejada e amada. Este tipo de conversa é, de longe, um consolo, uma vez que a questão prende-se ao facto de não gostarem de nós, da forma que nós gostariamos. That's it! É lixado? Muito! Lixado com F, se é que me faço entender; mas é a vida. Life's not fair!

This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember; some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well they come and go too. And babe, I hate to say it, most of them, actually pretty much all of them, are going to break your heart. But you can't give up because if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always always always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing & there's so much to smile about.

- Marilyn Monroe